Turn It For Good

If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding. PROVERBS 15:32 NLT

It’s amazing how another person’s unloving attitude or critical words can pierce your heart. It hurts to be censured, and you may be tempted to retaliate against the offender. Though there will be times when criticism directed at you is untrue or misguided, God’s Word is clear—don’t allow anger or bitterness to take root (Hebrews 12:15). Do not respond negatively to the discipline. Rather, listen to the correction, and you’ll mature in your understanding of yourself and others.

This exercise may be uncomfortable, but seek God’s wisdom anyway. Pray, “Search me, O God, and know my heart see if there be any hurtful way in me” (Psalm 139:23-24). He will reveal if there is anything true in what was said to you.

If there is, allow God to correct your behavior. If not, forgive your accuser and seek to understand him or her better. The Father can give you invaluable insight into the human heart through the experience if you’ll simply trust Him and set your heart to learn from Him.

Lord, I trust You. Help me forgive and love others more through this experience, amen. 

In His presence… find good in negative situations

EVERY DAY IN HIS PRESENCE, CHARLES F. STANLEY