If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts.
1 JOHN 3:20

How often have you heard someone say, “I know God has forgiven me, but I will never be able to forgive myself”? Perhaps you’ve said it yourself. The issues that cause us shame and guilt are varied, but once you confess your sins, the blood of Jesus completely removes them from you (John 1:9). How, then, can you silence those condemning voices?

Acknowledge : The first step is to recognize that you have not forgiven yourself. Face up to this fact, and begin to deal with the issue.

Repent : Tell the Lord that you realize your self-condemnation is a sin. Then accept and thank Him for His forgiveness.

Believe God : Reaffirm your trust in the truth of Scripture. The Lord says He has removed your transgressions as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12).

Choose forgiveness : By an act of your will and by faith in what Christ did for you on the cross, decide to forgive yourself.

Friend, you can rest fully in what Jesus has accomplished for you. The Lord has given you His Word, so reject all accusing voices and rest on His promise. Lord, thank You for forgiving me and giving me true peace, amen.

In His presence . . . receive His grace.

Stanley, Dr. Charles F. (2014-11-11). Every Day in His Presence (p. 367).